21st Century, What’s relationship of life-time?

In search of an unfulfilled desire and reaching to a point of staturation is officially marked as love these days. Lets’ look  keenly,  Parents love towards kids is associated with respect. As kids we are born to them, It is our responsibility to make them proud with our actions. Giving and taking is love when it comes to friendship and to maintain healthy bonds with our admired people.  But, what actually love means, its Destiny? Well marriages are made in heaven. Whoever the partner one get, he/she itself is love. Maintaining multiple relationships, delving in extra marital affairs, etc is something people does with semi knowledge, lack of knowledge or even hormonal imbalances, sometimes even to satisfy their need want policy. A natural phenomena towards someone, a feeling of life-time, understanding and accepting, not cheating, not screwing up in the midst of journey, teaching one another, moulding them towards the way one dreamt or dreaming of with sincerity, care, attachment and taunts if necessary, not leaving them till the nature encounters one to die. That’s love. Love is never associated with caste, greed, age, finance, height, weight, etc. Parents can give birth, but it is never suggested to hold their kids to kill their interests, likes which they developed over time. Parents must give wings to fly to their kids. If parenting is proper then as kids, they themselves will take decisions. To happen all this self-love is must in order to love another self-loving soul. It is because we are living in post-truth era,  if one can’t love oneself, one cannot love someone. If parents love is proper, then as kids they themselves will make things happen, it is never suggested to restrict kids because of societal norms. Caste is something we created but it has no logic with natures’ test.

~Bandi Gnaneshwari